The Organism Inside You

I could not have put it better myself:

Here's the thing about having an approximately 7-lb organism inside you:It feels really, really weird. How's that for stating the obvious? And yet all the parenting books and magazines and websites (oh, let's call a spade a spade... they're mothering books and magazines and websites because men have too much -- or too little -- sense to read how-to books about something as ephemeral as parenting) don't tell you this. They tell you that being pregnant is wonderful and/or magical and/or empowering, and they may even admit that it can be "uncomfortable", but not once have I read anything anywhere that antes up the fact that harbouring a large organism inside your own body is just plain unsettling, not to mention outright bizarre. (Yes, yes, I know it's "natural" and all that, but so are platypuses and, arguably, Anna Nicole Smith, and that doesn't make them any less strange.)

If you've never gestated a large-ish mammal before, here are some things that may surprise you:
When said mammal "kicks", this event is not the charming once-every-so-often experience that sitcoms would have you believe, in which everyone gathers round with their hands on the gestatee's stomach while she smiles beatifically.

Kicking is a persistent (i.e. sometimes dozens of times per hour) and frequently painful activity. Kicks can be directed at any number of your vital organs, frequently simultaneously. It is possible to be kicked under your ribs AND in the bladder at the same time, resulting in a having-to-pee-with-the-wind-knocked-out-of-you sensation that is not without a certain je ne sais quoi.

Kicking is visible from the outside of your body. This is exactly 87 times freakier than you would think it is. Imagine it thusly: you are inside a large balloon. Whilst pressing your back against one side of the balloon, you are able to leverage both feet against two other sides of the balloon, and you push out, distending the balloon so that it looks like two little teepees where each foot is pressing. Just for kicks, you keep your feet in this position for a minute or two, ignoring the gasps of pain coming from outside the balloon. Whee!

"Kicking" is actually a colloquial term for "fetal movement", which is a deceptively innocuous blanket term for a range of movements that would have made the Red Baron proud: loop-the-loops, barrel rolls, and possibly even the dreaded hammer head.

Kicking does not subside at reasonable times, such as during important work meetings, or WHILE TRYING TO SLEEP.

20weeks2

20weeks2
Originally uploaded by Viva.

Here is a creepy frontal view of the baby at 20 weeks...I think she looks a bit like an alien, but I think it's the ultrasound...I ..urrr hope it is...

20 Weeks ultrasound

20 Weeks ultrasound
Originally uploaded by Viva.

Here is our little girl at 20 weeks (March 2nd). I got an early birthday gift when they told us it was a girl!

Uticharia of Pregnancy - Or just plain hives

What was once considered to be the uneventful pregnancy has now become interesting. Every morning I wake up covered in hives! They are the size of big mosquito bites all on my knees, hands, feet, elbows and hips...it is just awful. It lasts for about 3 hours...and long hours these are.

What can you do? Nothing...grin and bear it ;)